November’s lineup of erotic events offers a mix of intimate cabarets, fetish masquerades, and play parties across New York, Los Angeles, and London. From secret soirees and neo-noir cabarets to leather-bound gatherings, this curated list is for those looking to step outside the everyday and explore desire in all its forms. Let curiosity lead the way.
New York
Boom! Day of the Dead by Suzanne Bartsch
Friday, November 1st, 10pm-4am
Le Bain, 444 W 13th Street
Matinee Disco at Joyface
Saturday, November 2nd, 5-10pm (every Saturday)
104 Loisaida Avenue
Dia de los Muertos Late Night Celebration
Saturday, November 2nd, 6pm-midnight
3 Dollar Bill, 260 Meserole Street, Brooklyn
DIRTY MAGAZINE'S
Erection Nite 2024 Spectacular
Tuesday, November 5th, 9pm-late
Home Sweet Home, 131 Chrystie St.
Hosted by Petit Mort
Shibari & Strings: Resonance in Restraint
Wednesday, November 6th, 7:30-9:30pm
The Red Pavilion, 1241 Flushing Ave
Glitter Gutter: NYC Burlesque & Variety
Thursday, November 7th, 9:30pm
The Slipper Room, 167 Orchard St
Lust Caution: A Neo Noir Cabaret
Saturday, November 9th, 8:30-10:30pm
The Red Pavilion, 1241 Flushing Ave
The Abject: A Performance by Empress Wu at CUNY Graduate Center
Tuesday, November 12th, 6:30-8:30pm
CUNY Graduate Center, Segal Theater & Zoom
Hit Me Up Academy: Role Play that Works For You
Thursday, November 14th, 7-9pm
120 Walker St, Floor 5
Nutcracker Rouge
Various showtimes from November 14th-30th, 6pm + 8pm
Company XIV, 383 Troutman St, Brooklyn
Yummy Brooklyn - Kinky Burlesque & Erotic Sideshow
Friday, November 22nd, 8pm
Sucia NYC Speakeasy, Bedstuy, Brooklyn
Dirty Circus at House of Yes
Every Friday and Saturday in November, 6:30-9:30pm
House of Yes, 2 Wyckoff Ave, Brooklyn
Los Angeles
Holy Erotica: A Sacred Journey of Embodiment and Sensuality
Saturday, November 9th, 1:30-6:30pm
Ethereal Yoga Studio, 120 North Topanga Canyon Blvd
Awakening: A Tasting and Play Party for Newbies
Saturday, November 9th, 9pm-2am
Sanctuary Studios, 13012 Athens Way
Bound in Leather: Avatar’s Holiday Cocktails Gala
Saturday, November 10th, 7-10pm
Tom of Finland House, 1421 Laveta Terrace
Torture Garden
Sunday, November 10th, 9pm-3am
Avalon Hollywood, 1735 Vine Street, Hollywood
Kink + BDSM Speed Dating / Friending
Tuesday, November 19th
2611 Hyperion Ave
London
Book Launch: Indie Porn, Zahra Stardust in Conversation with Dr. Carolina Are
Tuesday, November 5th, 7-9pm
The Common Press, 118 Bethnal Green Road
Tempest Rose’s House of Burlesque Speak Easy
Saturday, November 2nd, and every Saturday, 6pm (show at 6:30pm)
Madame Jojo's, London
Joyride - London’s Queer and Sex Positive Party
Sunday, November 10th, 4pm
Corsica Studios, 4-5 Elephant Rd
The Fetish and Kink Summit
Saturday, November 21st, 9:15am-6pm
ArtsTwo, 335 Mile End Road
Secret Society of Cabaret Presents a Vintage Soirée
Friday, November 29th, 6:15-10pm
8 Embankment, London